What We Want
The question is, has the Lefkoe method made a difference in my life since I purchased the Natural Confidence program two years ago? The best way to answer that is to address why you are looking, and why I was looking.
We all seek change – deep and meaningful change to get to the next level. We understand on a deeper level that we can enjoy a greater quality of life if we could only access more of our potential and stop working against ourselves, in small (or large) yet significant ways. This is what the Lefkoe Process is ultimately about. And below is a short version of how it changed things for me.
The first time I posted about the Lefkoe Method was in July of 2012. You can read that review here.
It was a pretty positive review. Written only a few weeks after I had begun doing the work of the Lefkoe Method and I already began seeing changes in my life. At that point, the changes were mainly in my inner world and how I perceived things.
I noticed a real difference in how I reacted to the world around me. People, circumstances, and situations that would usually get me thinking certain thoughts, negative thoughts about myself, were flagged in my mind and questioned. It was uncanny and liberating. The “real change”, or the external, you-can-measure-it-and-point-to-it change, began shortly after that post was written.
Connecting the Dots
I just spent the last half-hour digging through old emails to figure out these dates to illustrate the chain of events; it’s kind of blowing my mind.
August 17th of 2012 – A little over a month after that I met with my soon-to-be new manager and was hired for a position I was not even interviewing for (I was interviewing to be a substitute faculty and received a regular teaching position.)
September 19th of 2012 – A little over another month, I started that position and left a job where I was stuck in a serious rut. Als, my new position was double the pay rate of my old and more aligned with my life’s purpose.
Can I attribute all of these dramatic life changes to the Lefkoe Method? Well, I don’t know if The Lefkoe Method can get 100% of the credit. I do a lot of work on myself. I meditate twice a day, I seek out greater understanding religiously and like to try on new paradigms. But I think a lot of us do. We do a lot of good things for ourselves in our own ways and strive for the best. It is not for lack of trying that results seem slow coming or no coming.
The bottom line is, we need something to change on a fundamental level and the Lefkoe Method helps to create that change. It did for me. It is witnessed in the timeline above. So shortly after I dove into eliminating the 21 beliefs in the Natural Confidence Program, I had a cascade of positive life changes.
A Shift in Limiting Beliefs
Without the Lefkoe Method at that point in time, without that insight and that shift in beliefs (I ended up eliminating 21 beliefs in the Natural Confidence program in a short period of time), I feel that those things wouldn’t have happened in that time frame. It is simply too uncanny.
I still can’t quite believe that 10 days after the first review I quit smoking. I used to believe that I could never quit smoking. I believed that others may be able to quit, but for me, it was not possible. I was a habitual smoker in the worst way. And leaving a job where I was severely unhappy to another where my rate of pay doubled and I was doing work more aligned with my purpose – it’s like I was suddenly worthy of these endeavors or that I finally believed I was worth those endeavors.
In the past year, I have also taken part in the personal coaching sessions with Shelly Lefkoe where we work on beliefs one-on-one. Since I felt such a great shift from the Natural Confidence belief elimination program, I thought, why not? I will write more on that in a future post, but it is worth the while.
Do yourself a favor, click here and you can eliminate three beliefs for free. Remember when I said that I did my first belief and I noticed changes? It only takes one. Give it a shot. The total cost is twenty minutes of your time. The possible payoff is obtaining the things you feel are not possible and a higher quality of life.
I want to hear your story of how you changed your circumstance to bring yourself a happier and more fulfilling life. I mean it when I say I welcome your questions. Please feel free to email me at firstname.lastname@example.org if it is too private to comment. But if not, feel free to comment. No thought is too brief or subtle.
Eliminate three beliefs for free
Learn about the Natural Confidence Program
Learn about a one-on-one session with a Lefkoe Method Facilitator
Lose weight with the Lefkoe Method
My experience with transcendental meditation
My first Lefkoe Method Review
My experience quitting smoking
30 Days as a non-smoker
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